What should I wear?
Garden formal: suits, jumpsuits, midi or long dresses. Bright color is welcome — look at the palette on this page and lean in. Skip stilettos; it's grass and gravel.
Why does it start so late?
It's a Friday and most of you work. A 5:30 ceremony means you can finish your day, drive down, and still make it — and it puts the whole party in the best light of the evening.
Is there really no dinner?
There's plenty of food. It just isn't served in courses at an assigned seat. Stations open at 7:00 and stay open — eat when you're hungry, sit wherever you like, go back as often as you want.
Can I bring a plus-one?
If your invitation was addressed to you and a guest, yes. If it wasn't, we hope you understand.
Are kids invited?
Pick one: "Yes — bring them, there's a lawn to run on." / "We love your kids, but this one is adults only."
Can I take photos during the ceremony?
We'd love it if you didn't. We both work in film, so we've hired people we trust, and we'd rather see your faces than your phones. Everything after the ceremony — cocktails, stations, dance floor — shoot away.
I have a dietary restriction.
Tell us on the RSVP form. Every station will have a labeled option and the caterer will know your name.
When does it end?
Last call is 10:30 and we're out by 11:00 — the venue closes at midnight. Plan your ride accordingly.
Who do I ask if I have a question?
Name of a friend, family member, or day-of coordinator is our point person — email. Please don't text the two of us on the 30th; we'll be busy getting married.
